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		<title>10 Tips For A Great Night&#8217;s Sleep</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 04:20:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Petra Creutziger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Getting enough good quality sleep is essential to function well during the day and to keep our sanity in stressful times. Here are 10 tips to tackle insomnia and increase the chances for a restful sleep, so that your body can renew and refresh and you wake up ready to embrace the new day with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Getting enough good quality sleep is essential to function well during the day and to keep our sanity in stressful times. Here are 10 tips to tackle insomnia and increase the chances for a restful sleep, so that your body can renew and refresh and you wake up ready to embrace the new day with all challenges and opportunities.</p>
<p><a href="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/liste-w.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1676" title="Make a list" src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/liste-w-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>1. Make A List</p>
<p>Before going to bed, make a list of what you need to do the next day. Write everything down that comes to your mind and just in case you get more ideas, keep pen and paper beside your bed so you can easily them when you remember an additional task.</p>
<p>Writing down things that are going on in your head gives your brain the signal that it no longer needs to think about those tasks, which will help to slow or even stop the mental merry-go-round.</p>
<p><a href="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/tv.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1677" style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="Avoid TV Before Retiring" src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/tv-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>2. Avoid TV Before Retiring</p>
<p>The impact of news, thrillers or emotional movies are as  intense as underestimated. While your conscious mind seems to turn off while watching TV, the unconscious is working unremittingly, trying to make sense of the impressions it gets.</p>
<p>It does not distinguish between &#8216;reality&#8217; and &#8216;movie&#8217; &#8211; to the unconscious mind it&#8217;s mind it&#8217;s all the same. Here lies its power and its &#8216;weakness&#8217;.</p>
<p>Leave some time between the end of a movie and retiring and certainly do not fall asleep with the TV on.</p>
<p><a href="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/buch.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1678" style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="Fill Your Mind With Inspiration" src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/buch-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>3. Fill Your Mind With Inspiration</p>
<p>The best way to end the day is to do so on a positive note, so that you will be drifting off with uplifting thoughts.</p>
<p>Reading inspirational, motivational, empowering self-growth books and material for at least 30 minutes prior to bed will help to avoid falling asleep with the stressful thoughts like most people do.</p>
<p><a href="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/lampe-w.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1679" style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="Darkness" src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/lampe-w-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>4. Darkness</p>
<p>The darker your room the better your sleep. When it is dark, your body produces an enzyme that supports deep sleep and the reparation process of your body.</p>
<p>If you are afraid of the dark, put a light on a timer, so that it will turn off at a certain time or use a tea candle.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/wecker-w.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1680" style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="Avoid Electronic Pollution" src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/wecker-w-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>5. Avoid Electronic Pollution</p>
<p>Make sure to turn off all electronic devices in your bedroom or even better &#8211; ban everything that requires electricity from your bedroom and switch off your outlets . Every electronic impulse is a disturbance for the body, which in its essence is pure energy.</p>
<p>If you need an alarm clock to wake up in time, choose one that is or can be battery-operated.</p>
<p><a href="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/mahlzeit-w.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1681" style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="Early Dinner" src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/mahlzeit-w-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>6. Early Dinner</p>
<p>The purpose of sleep is to allow time for body and mind to heal and to repair. When there is undigested food in the stomach, the body is forced to focus on digestion instead of healing.</p>
<p>To avoid that, have your last meal at least 3 hours before going to bed and resist the temptation of late snacks. The body was designed to digest food best while moving &#8211; not while laying down.</p>
<p>A saying suggests to &#8216;have breakfast like an emperor, lunch like a king and dinner like a beggar&#8217;.</p>
<p><a href="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/affe.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1682" style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="Quality Sleep" src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/affe-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>7. Quality Sleep</p>
<p>In Ayurvedic medicine it&#8217;s believed that there are cycles that are the most conducive for certain activities. Generally, going to bed at 10:00 pm and arising at 6:00 am appears to allow the body to rest the deepest, rejuvenate the most, and gives the person the most energy throughout the day.</p>
<p>However, some people need a bit more, some may need less sleep. Keeping it within 10pm to 6am (if you can), find out which time frame gives you the best quality sleep.</p>
<p><a href="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/oele-w.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1683" title="Drug Free Sleep" src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/oele-w-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>8. Drug Free Sleeping</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t take drugs that are supposed to help you sleep (unless required by your physician). Most are designed to simply deaden your senses. However, the goal of &#8216;sleep&#8217; is to give your body the time and means to repair itself and prepare for the coming day.</p>
<p>When you drug yourself to sleep, every system in your body is slowed down, including all those systems that are responsible for repairing you.</p>
<p>If you really need support falling asleep, talk to your homoeopath, who will be able to assess your situation and recommend a natural remedy that considers your personal conditions or try aroma therapy.</p>
<p><a href="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/balkonfenster.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1684" style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="Fresh Air" src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/balkonfenster-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>9. Fresh Air</p>
<p>Make sure that there&#8217;s a fresh air supply in the room. The air indoors is said to be some of the most toxic air around. When you sleep, you&#8217;re only able to breath in the air that surrounds you in your enclosed bedroom. Try opening a window (if it&#8217;s cold outside then just open the window a crack).</p>
<p>The fresh air that comes in while you sleep will help your body repair itself because you&#8217;ll have access to cleaner, more oxygenated air.</p>
<p><a href="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/movement_discp_mid_1.jpg.gif"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1685" style="margin-bottom: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="Gentle Exercise like ChiBall" src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/movement_discp_mid_1.jpg-150x120.gif" alt="" width="150" height="120" /></a>10.Exercise</p>
<p>During the day, do 60 minutes of mild exercise. If you don&#8217;t have time to do 60 minutes in a row, then break it up into 2 &#8211; 30 minute sessions, or 3 &#8211; 20 minute session, or 6 &#8211; 10 minute sessions &#8211; just get a full 60 minutes in. The best exercise when talking about general health and preparing your body for a great night&#8217;s sleep is &#8220;walking&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>Tai Chi For Busy People</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Aug 2011 04:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Petra Creutziger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tai Chi Workshop Tai Chi has proven to be a very effective ‘exercise program’ to reduce stress and increase your energy. Tai Chi increases flexibility and strength in your joints. It leads to a very good, upright body posture. Tai Chi eliminates blockages in your main and sub-meridians (energy lines) and encourages a balanced flow [...]]]></description>
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<h1>Tai Chi Workshop</h1>
<p><strong>Tai Chi has proven to be a very effective ‘exercise program’ to reduce stress and increase your energy.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Tai Chi increases flexibility and strength in your joints. It leads to a very good, upright body posture. Tai Chi eliminates blockages in your main and sub-meridians (energy lines) and encourages a balanced flow of Yin-Yang energy throughout the whole body.</strong></p>
<p><strong>The subtleness and complexity of Tai Chi initiates a never-ending process. Once starting this journey, Tai Chi practitioners experience a vivid connection with energy. Like rarely any other form of exercise, Tai Chi leads to harmony and flexibility for body, mind &amp; spirit.</strong></p>
<p>This ‘Tai Chi for ‘Health’ program will start you with the basic moves (forms) for beginners. The program is based on the modified ‘Sun and Yang’ styles of Tai Chi.</p>
<p>Also included are safe warm up exercises and a basic Qi Gong breathing exercise to help you relax.</p>
<p>With ongoing classes and continued practice, you should develop better balance, improve blood circulation, notice some relief from joint pain and feel a reduction in stress levels as well as become aware of improved concentration levels, clarity and focus.</p>
<p>Overall, Tai Chi aims to achieve an improvement in health and well being.</p>
<p>Join us on</p>
<h2>29th of September 2011 at 9.30am</h2>
<p>for the first of <strong>6 Tai Chi classes</strong>.</p>
<p>Cost is only <strong>$50</strong>, payable on registration via EFTPOS or cash.</p>
<p>Places are strictly limited to 12 participants and only another 11 places are left, so register as soon as possible to avoid disappointment.</p>
<p>Registrations are taken via the form <a href="http://chiyujveda.com/tai-chi-workshop/">here</a>, per email or phone (0439 265 230).</p>
<p>We look forward to meeting you there for a great time with like-minded people.</p>
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		<title>7 Steps To Improve Your Concentration</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 22:03:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Petra Creutziger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The ability to concentrate deeply on a task is of great benefit for anyone who needs to get a job done, but also for those who want or need to shut down the outside world in order to relax or gather some strength between challenges. If it is important that you absorb information quickly or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The ability to concentrate deeply on a task is of great benefit for anyone who needs to get a job done, but also for those who want or need to shut down the outside world in order to relax or gather some strength between challenges.</p>
<p>If it is important that you absorb information quickly or that you do a task efficiently and without mistakes you want to be able to concentrate, to focus your attention and your energy on one specific thing.</p>
<h2>Step 1 &#8211; Improve The Basics</h2>
<p>Stress of any kind is a major influence on our ability to concentrate, so the main aim when it comes to improving our concentration is to take away some of the stresses that prevent it.</p>
<p>Some easy to control factors are:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Sleep</strong> &#8211; make sure you get enough (not too little, but neither too much)</li>
<li><strong>Breaks</strong> &#8211; allow yourself short breaks between tasks where you sit and think of nothing, at least not of the task you just finished or the one you are about to start</li>
<li><strong>Balance</strong> &#8211; in your leisure time, establish activities that are of different dynamics and energy than your main work. Balance a stressful work environment with activities that are calming and a quiet, very structured and repetitive workplace with playful and adventurous endeavours.</li>
<li><strong>Nourishment &#8211; </strong>Nutritious food, a healthy amount of  water at room temperature and exercise are essential to supply body and brain with the energy to concentrate, so are fresh air and natural light</li>
</ul>
<p>Additionally you might consider, if possible, what time of the day you do the tasks that require your focus. Some people work best in the early morning, some prefer late nights and sometimes that may change too. Observe yourself, listen within and get familiar with your own needs and strengths.</p>
<p>Be careful with the consumption of coffein as a stimulant. It may give you a quick kick, but eventually causes dehydration, which your brain won&#8217;t like as it needs a healthy fluid balance in order to concentrate.</p>
<h2>Step 2 &#8211; Have A Break</h2>
<p>Some people have a tendency to push themselves hard and to go without a break until the job is finished. Sitting back and taking a nice deep breath is regarded as the reward that comes at the end of the task (if it comes at all).</p>
<p>However, having regular and refreshing breaks is essential in order to enable concentrated working. If you keep on pushing, the effect will be contrariwise: you will be too exhausted to keep going and over time your body and mind will develop unconscious strategies to avoid being under such stress again. Procrastination anyone?</p>
<p>So give yourself a regular break, where you intentionally and mindfully relax. This means that you are not filling it with an activity that again requires your attention, like reading or watching TV. Instead, literally smell the roses, sit down to listen to some music, do a breathing exercise or take a short walk in fresh air.</p>
<p>Take your breaks <em>before</em> you feel the signs of exhaustion. That way your break can provide more recovery quality and you will reload quicker than when you are already running on empty. Remind yourself with a timer that you set on 45-60 minutes and allow at least 5 minutes to reload your energy.</p>
<h2>Step 3 &#8211; Create A Supportive Environment</h2>
<p>The environment we live or work in has also a big impact on our ability to concentrate. Feng Shui is an ancient art and science that deals with the mutual effect of  Chi (energy) and environment and gives suggestions how to improve the flow of energy in internal and external spaces.</p>
<p>But you don&#8217;t have to be an expert in Feng Shui to create space that supports your concentration. Here are some simple to implement ideas:</p>
<p><strong>Phone/Mobile</strong> &#8211; turn it off! It&#8217;s that simple</p>
<p><strong>Sign</strong> -Let the people around you know that you don&#8217;t want to be interrupted with a &#8216;Do not disturb&#8217; sign. And shut your door!</p>
<p><strong>Declutter</strong> &#8211; put away everything from your desk that is not related to your work and that has the potential to take away your attention from your task. A clean desk leads to a focused mind.</p>
<p><strong>Move</strong> -create some space for movement. Ideally, have a mat handy for a quick Yoga posture, a breathing exercise or some stretches.</p>
<p><strong>Reduce</strong> &#8211; remove every picture or furniture that you don&#8217;t need in your room and keep it clean and tidy. As with your desk, the less there is to take your attention away, the easier it is to concentrate.</p>
<p><strong>Music</strong> &#8211; turn it off if it distracts you or try whether some nice background music is supporting your concentration. If you prefer to have some background sounds, choose from a CD or put your own collection together.</p>
<p>If you work for a company, you might have to ask permission to change things around. However, if you explain to your employer that you would like to make a few (appropriate!) changes in order to increase your concentration &#8211; and therefore your performance -  it is very like that your boss will happily agree.</p>
<h2>Step 4 &#8211; Find Your Stressors</h2>
<p>After finding out what supports your concentration, have a look what may trouble you. There are some factors that you won&#8217;t be able to influence. You&#8217;ll simply have to find a way to live with them. However, there are a few measures you can take to deal with potential stress factors.</p>
<h3>External Factors</h3>
<p>There are quite a few factors that &#8211; once recognised &#8211; can be eliminated. They are again very individual. What bothers one, another may not even take notice of.</p>
<p><strong>Noises</strong> -from traffic, people in the streets, loud music, voices, machinery or similar can easily distract us and disturb our concentration. Train yourself to get accustomed to external noises without losing focus. Alternatively, try earplugs. You may feel funny to do so in the beginning, but you will soon get over it.</p>
<p><strong>Other People</strong> &#8211; Colleagues, children or other family members can become real concentration killers, for example if you don&#8217;t have your own office where you can shut the door. If possible try to have the house for yourself during the times when you <em>really</em> need to concentrate, find a bit of room in a part of the house that is not so much frequented, try to arrange something with a friend or simply go back to earplugs.</p>
<p><strong>Odours</strong> &#8211; Even odours can derange us. These are hard to avoid and to make it worse they are very powerful. You can try to fight them with your own set of  fragrances from incense sticks or burning your favourite oils. Go for the woody essential oils, like Bergamotte, Cypress or Sandalwood. Their fragrance does not only more easily overpower annoying odours, they are also supportive for your concentration.</p>
<p><strong>Other Stressors</strong> &#8211; If you start to focus on things that catch your attention, you might be surprised how little things can suddenly be annoying, like a shrill colour, the busy-ness of a picture, a pattern, a dripping appliance, a sound that can&#8217;t be located&#8230;Many of those can be eliminated, once we have finally become aware what the problem is.</p>
<h3>Internal Factors</h3>
<p>Internal factors, like a merry-go-round of thoughts in our head, worries, high expectations or critical self-talk can easily throw us off balance.</p>
<p>It is hard to concentrate if your thoughts easily wonder off or you constantly worry about things, even more so when you start to feel guilty about not being able to concentrate. A downward spiral into a place where concentration feels impossible seems inevitable.</p>
<p>A simple exercise may help to break the viscous cycle: Write your thoughts down.</p>
<ol>
<li>When you find your thoughts spinning in your head and you just can´t turn them off, get yourself a piece of paper, a pen and a stop watch that you set on a 3-5 minute countdown.</li>
<li>Start to write down everything that comes into your mind without stopping until your set time is over or your paper is full.</li>
<li>Imagine that by writing your thoughts down, they actually get sucked out of your head onto the paper &#8211; a bit like Dumbledore does it with his wand in the Harry Potter books.</li>
<li>Put your paper aside and notice how your head feels lighter</li>
</ol>
<p>This exercise has a few positive effects:</p>
<ul>
<li>You allow your thoughts to come up and be heard</li>
<li>You pay attention to the things that bother you, which is part of becoming more aligned with yourself</li>
<li>You can more easily let go of the thoughts, because you have written them down, hence your unconscious mind recognises that they won´t be forgotten and will therefore allow you to calm down</li>
</ul>
<h2>Step 5 &#8211; Train Yourself</h2>
<p>Our ability to concentrate can decrease over time, if we are exposed to many or continuing stresses for a while. The good news is, it can also be improved if we train ourselves to do so.</p>
<p>If you choose to train yourself, remember to have fun with it. This will ensure that you&#8217;ll have better results than if you&#8217;d look at the exercises as another thing you don&#8217;t want to do. If you don&#8217;t <em>want</em> to do them, don&#8217;t do them!</p>
<p>However if you would like to train yourself to improve your concentration, here are a few ideas to get you going.</p>
<h3>The Watch-Watcher</h3>
<p>Level 1</p>
<ol>
<li>Grab a watch with a second hand.</li>
<li>For two minutes, observe the second hand as if there was nothing else important in the world</li>
<li>If you loose track because your thoughts wandered off, start again for two minutes</li>
</ol>
<p>Level 2</p>
<p>Once you have mastered level 1, lift the bar:</p>
<ol>
<li>Put the watch on your TV or very close, while there is an interesting movie or program going on.</li>
<li>Only watch the second hand and don&#8217;t allow the TV to take your attention away</li>
</ol>
<p>Level 3</p>
<p>Now we&#8217;re talking!</p>
<ol>
<li>While watching the second hand for two minutes, continue to recite the following number pattern:</li>
</ol>
<h3>               2 4 6 8 10 8 6 4 2 4 6</h3>
<p>As soon as you find yourself drifting off, start again. Keep going for at least two minutes.</p>
<h3>Mandala</h3>
<p>Colouring in Mandalas is a fun way to improve your concentration.</p>
<ol>
<li>Find yourself one that you like and that has lots of little  different segments to colour in</li>
<li>Decide on a pattern how you are going to colour it in. Stick to that pattern</li>
<li>Start colouring in, using either one colour first until you coloured every pattern with that one colour before moving on to the next or complete one set of segments in different colours, then the next. Choose the option that is more challenging in terms of concentration</li>
</ol>
<h3>Word/Letter Puzzle</h3>
<p>Option 1</p>
<ol>
<li>Find yourself a puzzle where you have a number of given words that you are supposed to find in a field of letters (up, down, diagonal, forwards, backwards, upside down&#8230;)</li>
</ol>
<p>Option 2</p>
<ol>
<li>Create your own puzzle:</li>
<li>Make a few copies of a paragraph of text from a newsletter or magazine with around 1000 words. Hint: up to here you have around 1700 words in this article)</li>
<li>Choose a letter that usually appears quite often, like A or E or N</li>
<li>Circle each letter of your choice in the text of one of the copies and count them</li>
<li>Check again with another copy. Do you have the same number?</li>
</ol>
<h3>Memory</h3>
<p>Memory is a great game that is also particularly good for children to help them improve their concentration.</p>
<p>Choose a memory game with pictures that are appealing to you or make your own.</p>
<ol>
<li>Place all the cards face down either in an ordered structure of rows and lines or randomly all over the place</li>
<li>There is always a pair of the same picture that you have to find by turning two and remembering where they are</li>
<li>If you turn two that are the same, you may take them and have another go, otherwise it&#8217;s the next player&#8217;s turn</li>
<li>Keep going until all cards have been taken</li>
<li>Then go again.</li>
</ol>
<p>You will find that once you have played the game three times in a row, it gets more and more challenging to remember where a card is placed.</p>
<p>Have a break after three games.</p>
<h2>Step 6 &#8211; Monitor Your Progress</h2>
<p>Like with every exercise that you do, it is a good idea to monitor your progress.</p>
<p>Get yourself a little notebook where you put down your main stress factors/concentration killers, what you did to eliminate or reduce them or how you chose to cope with them. After a while check in how your concentration has changed as a result of your efforts, what worked and what didn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Remember to give yourself a little reward when you notice some improvement!</p>
<h2> Step  7 &#8211; Establish Cross References Through Anchoring</h2>
<p>This is a technique from NLP &#8211; Neuro Linguistic Programming. With it you can program yourself to better concentration &#8211; literally by &#8216;pressing a button&#8217;.</p>
<ol>
<li>Decide where you want to set your &#8216;anchor&#8217;, preferably at a place that is easy to access, but won&#8217;t be touched by others than yourself; knuckle valleys are ideal.</li>
<li>Remember a time when you were extremely focused and concentrated, when nothing could take away your attention. Let the image of this specific event become bright in colours, intensive with sounds and most importantly, connect to the feeling of being totally focused and concentrated.</li>
<li>When you find yourself at the peak of intensity for being concentrated, press your anchor for a few seconds, just as long as you are at the peak. Let go when the intensity drops.</li>
<li>Repeat with another event where you felt totally focused, absolutely concentrated.</li>
<li>Now think of something different, like what you had for lunch yesterday</li>
<li>Then test your anchor by pressing your knuckle or wherever you set your anchor. Do you feel how you suddenly start to recall the state of being totally concentrated?</li>
<li>&#8216;Stack&#8217; your anchor. Whenever you are in a deep state of concentration, press your anchor to intensify it. That way your anchor is getting stronger over time.</li>
</ol>
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		<title>Stress &#8211; Enemy Mine? How to use stress to increase your health and wellbeing</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 May 2011 10:03:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Petra Creutziger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“I’m so stressed!” How often have you heard it or even thought or said it yourself today? We may use other words, but the statement is the same. We experience a lot of stress from the moment we get out of bed until we – often exhausted – fall back into it and even beyond. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>“I’m so stressed!”</h2>
<p>How often have you heard it or even thought or said it yourself today?</p>
<p>We may use other words, but the statement is the same. We experience a lot of stress from the moment we get out of bed until we – often exhausted – fall back into it and even beyond.</p>
<p>Constant stress is one of the most serious causes for un-resourceful behaviour that initiates even more stress.</p>
<p>But is stress really our enemy?</p>
<p>In fact, stress is a very important factor when it comes to survival, because it helps the body to prepare for fight or flight.</p>
<p>The purpose of stress is to enable us to react to a stressor (stress factor), allowing us to quickly adapt to changing circumstances.</p>
<p>Stress also supports our development, because every effort and solution requires a certain amount of stress energy. It brings out the best in us. Top performances wouldn’t be possible without it, as they require a controlled amount of stress.</p>
<p>Like with many things it is the ‘too much’ that is harmful for body, mind and soul. Stress can only be useful, when it is controlled, managed, and dealt with resourcefully.</p>
<p>But how do we do that?</p>
<p>There are three starting points for stress management:</p>
<p><strong>1. Stressors – </strong>changing your environment</p>
<p>Knowing what stresses you is a good place to start with. Once you know that, you can then work on ways to either eliminate, reduce or even avoid your stress factors.</p>
<p>For example you could</p>
<ul>
<li>turn off the phone or radio during a break, meeting or when you want to have some ‘me-time’ (eliminate)</li>
<li>turn down the volume of phone, radio or other devices or shut the door to reduce noise when you need to work concentrated (reduce)or</li>
<li>take another route to work, start earlier or later or even switch your way of transportation completely to public transport if you want to avoid the rush hour or road rage</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>2. ‘Self-Management’</strong> – managing your stress response</p>
<p>Managing your stress response means learning how to create long-term health and wellbeing strategies and a resourceful attitude to</p>
<ul>
<li>cultivate or increase resistance (through active relaxation</li>
<li>develop skills for an optimistic, positive mindset</li>
<li>change the perception of the situation</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>3. ‘Agitation management’ </strong>–<strong> </strong>finding ways for an<strong> </strong>immediate response adjustment</p>
<p>In an acute stress situation it is useful to be able to refer back to more resourceful short-term techniques to influence your immediate response in order to avoid agitation peaks or the build-up of (negative) spiralling effects.</p>
<p>Short term health and wellbeing strategy options to reduce, cope with or prevent stress include</p>
<ul>
<li>Spontaneous relaxation</li>
<li>Perception channelling</li>
<li>Positive self-talk</li>
<li>Venting -release from immediate pressure</li>
</ul>
<p>Great natural and non-invasive alternatives to drugs, alcohol, medication, smoking or other health compromising choices are systematic muscle relaxation, autogenic training or breathing techniques, asking yourself power-questions or learning how to use self-suggestions or affirmations effectively.</p>
<p>In the long run, prevention is better than cure and dealing with the effects of stress is essential. Stress is always individual and usually home made, which means it is a learned behaviour or results from impractical habits.</p>
<p>The good thing is that every learned behaviour or behavioural pattern can also be unlearned, replaced or changed.</p>
<p>Stress can impact your body, mind and spirit on four levels:</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Cognitive level </strong>– all mental processes &#8211; thoughts and senses</li>
<li><strong>Emotional level </strong>– all feelings and sensitivities</li>
<li><strong>Vegetal-hormonal level </strong>– all reactions of the autonomous nervous system and the connected organ processes that are normally not consciously controlled, like hormones</li>
<li><strong>Muscular level </strong>– reactions of the muscular skeleton system, those that can be controlled consciously</li>
</ol>
<p>This means that different stressors require different stress responses. How you experience stress mainly will give you a good indicator how to best deal with it.</p>
<p>For long-term health and wellbeing you may want to consider a strategy that involves relaxation (regular <a href="http://www.nuadthai.com.au" target="_blank">massages</a>, <a href="http://chiyujveda.com/chiball-method/" target="_blank">meditation in motion</a>…) or <a href="http://www.chiyujveda.com" target="_blank">intentional exercises</a> to calm the mind and strengthen the body, creating a supportive network or attending personal development workshops or seminars that teach self-management and life leadership skills.</p>
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		<title>Get Your Chi Moving &#8211; How To Raise Your Energy And Increase Your Physical, Mental And Emotional Performance</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Mar 2011 02:46:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Petra Creutziger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you familiar with the tiredness that usually hits around 10am and often again at 3pm? To me it sometimes felt as if a hammer was being knocked on my head. If you feel it too, this would be a sign that your ‘Chi’ is low. Chi is the Chinese term for vital energy or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you familiar with the tiredness that usually hits around 10am and often again at 3pm? To me it sometimes felt as if a hammer was being knocked on my head. If you feel it too, this would be a sign that your ‘Chi’ is low.</p>
<p><a href="http://chiyujveda.com/what-is-chi/" target="_blank">Chi </a>is the Chinese term for vital energy or life energy, also called Ki in Japanese, Sen in Thai or Prana in Ayurvedic (Indian) tradition.</p>
<p>The belief in those and other cultures is that Chi/Ki/Sen/Prana… runs through energy lines in the body that are not visible, but which can be sensed by trained practitioners and even the aware individual.</p>
<p>People who experience a lot of stress, grief, anger, frustration or other strong emotions without finding a balancing counterpart or learning a resourceful way to deal with these emotions, over time develop blockages in their energy lines which are called meridians (Chinese and Japanese), Sen lines (Thai) or Nadis (Ayurveda).</p>
<p>Those blockages are experienced as tensions and are often the first symptoms that something is not quite as it should be. If no attention is given to those signals, the body uses a more intense language to express the need for Chi, which can’t pass the blockages in the energy line. This is when dis-comfort starts to turn into dis-ease, which will become serious or chronic illnesses if only the symptom, but not the real cause is treated.</p>
<p>A blockage in an energy line causes the Chi flow to slow down or even to stagnate. As a result you feel tired, exhausted, weary&#8230; Your body starts to go in recovery mode, winds down to safe energy or to get in a state where it thinks it can regain some vigour. It is your body´s way to say it needs time to repair itself.</p>
<p>The stronger the flow of Chi, the quicker is your recovery time and the easier it is for your body to initiate whichever healing process is necessary, which means it is a vital prerequisite to provide your system with high quality and quantity Chi.</p>
<p>There are a few simple ways to do that:</p>
<p>1.      Breathe – Breathing deeply into your belly helps to take in lots of oxygen and Chi, provided it is fresh air. Avoid closed, all day air conditioned rooms, search for a place close to a tree, garden or natural water.</p>
<p>2.      Eat – Nutritious food like organic fruit and vegetables are great carriers of Chi. It may not be suitable for everyone to eat vegetables raw, but if your constitution allows, go for it.</p>
<p>3.      Drink – Choose pH neutral, if possible mineral rich water and drink it at room temperature. Ice cold or very chilled drinks make it hard for the spleen to bring intakes to a temperature where their nutritional components can be split and sent to the relevant systems and a lot of the value gets lost.</p>
<p>4.      Exercise gentle and thoughtful moves – While Qi Gong is referred to as the art of generating Chi, Tai Chi is the modality that helps to manage it. Yoga focuses on breathing, heating the body and keeping or ideally increasing its flexibility. Pilates exercises strengthen and stabilise the core, movements based on the Feldenkrais method may release memories that are stored in body tissue and increases body awareness.</p>
<p>5.      Relax &#8211; Meditation and deep relaxation quieten and bring focus to your mind and spirit.</p>
<p>The ChiBall Method™ is a body-mind exercise program that is build on the above principles and also considers Yin and Yang, the Five Elements and seasons known from TCM &#8211; traditional Chinese medicine.</p>
<p>A ChiBall™ is a ball the size of a honey melon, available in six different colours, each with a specific fragrance, utilising the therapeutical powers of aromas and colours while performing a choreographed routine to specifically composed music.</p>
<p>A typical ChiBall™ class is gently balancing, energising, activating Chi and relaxing and can be adapted to suit older adults, children, high achievers, mums-to-be,  athletes or mixed classes. To learn more about The ChiBall Method ™ go to the website <a href="http://www.chiball.com" target="_blank">www.chiball.com</a> or <a href="http://chiyujveda.com/chiball-method/" target="_blank">www.chiyujveda.com</a></p>
<p><a href="http://chiyujveda.com/chiball-class-registration/" target="_blank">Find classes in Townsville</a></p>
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		<title>How To Eat, Move And Be Healthy &#8211; book recommendation</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jul 2010 23:01:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Petra Creutziger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How to Eat, Move and Be Healthy! by Paul Chek A personalized 4-step guide to looking and feeling great from the inside out If you want to make an informed decision how to eat healthy, move better and as a result increase your fitness and overall health, you may find this the book you have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.idevaffiliate.com/31264/idevaffiliate.php?id=226_2_1_4" target="_blank"><img class="size-full wp-image-1222 alignnone" style="margin: 5px;" title="eatmovebehealthy" src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/eatmovebehealthy.jpg" alt="" width="129" height="160" /></a><a href="http://www.idevaffiliate.com/31264/idevaffiliate.php?id=226_2_1_4" target="_blank">How to Eat, Move and Be Healthy! by Paul Chek</a></p>
<p>A personalized 4-step guide to looking and feeling great from the inside out</p>
<p>If you want to make an informed decision how to eat healthy, move better and as a result increase your fitness and overall health, you may find this the book you have been waiting for.</p>
<p>The four steps in <a href="http://www.idevaffiliate.com/31264/idevaffiliate.php?id=226_2_1_4" target="_blank">Paul Chek</a>&#8216;s guide cover</p>
<p>1. Questionnaire to self-assess the area of your health that needs most of the initial attention. The results help you to choose the chapter you want to read next:</p>
<p>2. Nutrition &#8211; Explained is the &#8220;No-diet&#8221; Diet, the scientific foundations the eating suggestions are built on and a graphic that helps you to choose the food that will nurture your body and deliver the energy it is asking for. For the one interested in facts and scientific backgrounds of food, this book offers may offer some interesting surprises.</p>
<p>There are no recipes on offer, which might be a bit disappointing for those who like to follow suggestions. This guide is not suitable for you if you prefer to be told what to do and what not, but offers enough information to make better choices when choosing what you eat (and when you eat).</p>
<p>The consideration of &#8216;Biochemical Individuality&#8217; and &#8216;Metabolic Typing&#8217; will give you reference and encouragement how to create a diet that suits your personal needs.</p>
<p>3. Exercise &#8211; Described the different types of movement, which is regarded as &#8216;the path to optimal health&#8217;.</p>
<p>Considered are exercises to increase flexibility and energy and conditioning your core, as well as &#8216;FUN-ctional exercises&#8217;, all beautifully documented with step-by-step explanations and visually supported with self-explaining pictures.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.idevaffiliate.com/31264/idevaffiliate.php?id=226_2_1_4" target="_blank">Chek</a> mentions special considerations and how to put it all together to make it your personal exercise program that you can easily incorporate in your daily life and adjust to your level of fitness and commitment.</p>
<p>4. Relaxation &#8211; Explains how stress, lack of or too much sleep, cutting calories can affect your health and &#8211; in a really funny way &#8211; the causes and effects of poor digestion and what to do about it.</p>
<p>Overall a wonderful holistic look at living healthy, highly recommendable.</p>
<p>Rating: 4/5 stars</p>
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		<title>Simplify Your Life &#8211; book recommendation</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 21:54:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Petra Creutziger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Elaine St. James &#8211; Simplify Your Life Simplification is a skill that needs commitment, practice and a plan. Elaine St. James&#8216; book Simplify Your Life suggest &#8217;100 Ways to Slow Down And Enjoy The Things That Really Matter&#8217;.  From household via lifestlye, finances, and job to special issues for women, Simplify Your Life covers the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0786880007?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=anarillasyner-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0786880007" target="_blank"><img class="size-full wp-image-1217 alignnone" style="margin: 5px;" title="simplify_your_life" src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/simplify_your_life.jpg" alt="" width="141" height="160" /></a><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26sort%3Drelevancerank%26search-alias%3Dbooks%26ref_%3Dntt%5Fathr%5Fdp%5Fsr%5Fpop%5F1%26field-author%3DElaine%2520St.%2520James&amp;tag=anarillasyner-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957" target="_blank">Elaine  St. James</a> &#8211; <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0786880007?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=anarillasyner-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0786880007" target="_blank">Simplify  Your Life</a></p>
<p>Simplification is a skill that needs commitment, practice and a plan.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26sort%3Drelevancerank%26search-alias%3Dbooks%26ref_%3Dntt%5Fathr%5Fdp%5Fsr%5Fpop%5F1%26field-author%3DElaine%2520St.%2520James&amp;tag=anarillasyner-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957" target="_blank">Elaine St. James</a>&#8216; book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0786880007?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=anarillasyner-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0786880007" target="_blank">Simplify Your Life</a> suggest &#8217;100 Ways to Slow Down And Enjoy The Things That Really Matter&#8217;.  From household via lifestlye, finances, and job to special issues for women, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0786880007?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=anarillasyner-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0786880007" target="_blank">Simplify  Your Life</a> covers the basic areas of life that are often particularly effected by stress.</p>
<p>It is a great &#8216;beginners guide&#8217; for those who are just getting warm with the idea of making small changes in their lives and are looking for suggestions what to do and how to do it.</p>
<p>A great tool to start any physical or mental <a href="http://transitionguidance.com/de-cluttering/" target="_self">de-cluttering</a> process.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2010 23:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Petra Creutziger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them. &#8211; John F. Kennedy How is Gratitude related to the relief, management or prevention of stress? It has been a big challenge for me to be grateful when I was younger and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/beten2.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1205 alignnone" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 5px;" title="The Power of Gratitude " src="http://transitionguidance.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/beten2-199x300.jpg" alt="The Power of Gratitude" width="159" height="240" /></a></p>
<blockquote><p>As we express our gratitude, we must never  forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live  by them. &#8211; John F. Kennedy</p></blockquote>
<h2>How is Gratitude related to the relief, management or prevention of stress?</h2>
<p>It has been a big challenge for me to be grateful when I was younger and  when things happened that either made no sense at that time, that  confused me or that I did not like/want to be an experience in my life.</p>
<p>When I was challenged I tended to get upset either with myself, others or the situation. Blame was my good friend.</p>
<p>As you can imagine neither of this was very effective in terms of moving on. The worst experience was when I found out that my (then) husband had an affair with my best friend. That moment I felt like drawn into a black hole, spiraling downwards.</p>
<p>I went through the whole spectrum of negative emotions: anger, sadness, frustration, self-pity, fear, grief, aggression and once through started all over again. Only a few friends who really cared about me dared to be physically and mentally close when the &#8216;fire horse&#8217; in me came out and the volcano was braking loose.</p>
<p>Today I have the deepest respect for these friends &#8211; I really wasn&#8217;t a pleasure to be around.</p>
<p>Fast forward 10 years. A few months ago I reconnected with &#8216;the adulteress&#8217;. To be honest, I was very surprised myself when I felt the need to get in contact with her. Even more as she tried to apologise for what happened (back then) and there was no way I would have even listened.</p>
<p>It feels really odd now to use the word adulteress, because this is not how I see her any more. Today I can see the pain that she went through herself. I no longer feel any kind of stress calling her name, while before I almost felt physical pain when I even only thought of her.</p>
<p>Besides time of course, there is one virtue that helped me to see this event differently now:</p>
<h2>Gratitude</h2>
<p>By practicing Nuad Thai &#8211; <a href="http://www.nuadthai.com.au" target="_blank">Traditional Thai Massage</a> and studying its roots in Buddhist tradition as well as becoming a life coach I learned to take responsibility for my actions and my non-actions.</p>
<p>Instead of blaming others, I rather look for the gift in the situation and ask myself better questions:</p>
<p>What can I learn to avoid/do better next time?<br />
How does this help me to grow?<br />
How can I use this to become a better person?</p>
<p>By establishing some resources like a <a href="http://transitionguidance.com/trusted-source/" target="_blank">trusted source</a>, a coach I can share insights with, journaling and meditation it is now easy and almost effortless to tap onto the power of <strong>Gratitude</strong>.</p>
<p>A heartfelt Thank-You to whoever you pray to invites harmony and instant relief to your life. The answer is often a knowing deep inside, that once you have accepted the gift of the situation as an opportunity for learning and growth, it will no longer cause any physical or mental stress.</p>
<h2>How to practice Gratitude</h2>
<p>Practicing Gratitude is very easy. To start with, ask yourself a simple question:</p>
<p>What happened today that you could choose to be grateful for?</p>
<p>Maybe you got a smile from a stranger, someone picked up your bag when it fell down, you got a nice call from a friend&#8230;</p>
<p>Even the simplest things can be a great source to experience Gratitude: the song of a bird, the beauty of a tree, the blue of the sky, a raindrop on a leaf&#8230;</p>
<p>Once you get in the habit of practicing Gratitude for the small things, you will find it easier to see the hidden presents in a situation that is more challenging.</p>
<blockquote><p>At times our own light goes out and is  rekindled by a spark from another person.     Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have  lighted the flame within us. &#8211; Albert Schweitzer</p></blockquote>
<p>Every person has a story and we are all connected.</p>
<p>The story of &#8216;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1571740872?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=anarillasyner-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1571740872" target="_blank">The Little Soul And The Sun</a>&#8216; by Neale Donald Walsh gives an insight of how each of us is a shining light and why sometimes the ones that bring us the biggest pain are those we need to show our deepest appreciation. (A review and summary will be available soon).</p>
<h2>The Gift Of Gratitude</h2>
<p>By practicing Gratitude you will connect with your higher spirit. This is one of the most powerful resources to increase the balance of your body, mind &amp; spirit and will help you to stay much more relaxed when the road of life gets a bit bumpy and challenging.</p>
<p>I would like to share my gratitude for the organiser of the <a href="http://nuadthai.com.au/free-foot-massage-give-away/" target="_blank">eco fiesta and lifestyle expo</a>, who put together a wonderful event that enabled me to connect with new prospective and re-connect with existing friends.</p>
<p>My deepest appreciation goes to my husband Thomas and my youngest son Noah, who support me unconditionally in everything that I do and who enrich my life beyond words.</p>
<p>Each of my older children, Aaron, David and Lukas, gave my life a twist which was extremely valuable and I am grateful for their strong personalities and enriching characters.</p>
<p>To all my existing clients: your appreciation for my work makes my days. You are all precious to me and I cherish our relationship no matter how often or seldom we see each other.</p>
<p>Without the people who read this, I would just be talking to myself, so my Gratitude includes you as well.</p>
<p>And before this starts to sound like the acknowledgements in the foreword of a book, I stop here &#8211; curious to hear what you are grateful for today, tomorrow and the day after. Please share your thoughts and insights below. Thank you.</p>
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		<title>Eco Fiesta and Lifestyle Expo &#8211; The Winner!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2010 11:26:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Petra Creutziger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Eco Fiesta and Lifestyle Expo was a great event held on Saturday 5th and Sunday 6th of June on the grounds of Queen&#8217;s Gardens. Lots of stalls where present who showed ideas, strategies or products that support a healthy lifestyle and at the same time live in tune with nature, reduce or avoid waste [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Eco Fiesta and Lifestyle Expo was a great event held on Saturday 5th and Sunday 6th of June on the grounds of Queen&#8217;s Gardens.</p>
<p>Lots of stalls where present who showed ideas, strategies or products that support a healthy lifestyle and at the same time live in tune with nature, reduce or avoid waste and overall be more sustainable.</p>
<p>Transition Guidance was represented through the <strong><a href="http://www.nuadthai.com.au" target="_blank">Nuad Thai Academy</a></strong> &#8211; providing FREE <strong><a href="http://nuadthai.com.au/treatments/nuad-tao/" target="_blank">Foot Massage</a> </strong>during the whole duration of the festival.</p>
<p>Almost 100 people put their name down to get in the draw and win the Introductory Offer, the signature Package that gives an overview and an impression of the <strong><a href="http://www.nuadthai.com.au" target="_blank">Nuad Thai Academy</a></strong>&#8216;s specialty:</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.nuadthai.com.au/treatments/nuad-thai" target="_self">Nuad Thai</a> &#8211; Traditional Thai Yoga Massage</strong><br />
<strong><a href="http://nuadthai.com.au/treatments/head-over-heels/" target="_self">Head Over Heels </a>- Hand, Feet and Head Massage<br />
<a href="http://nuadthai.com.au/treatments/nuad-thai-aroma/" target="_self">Nuad Thai Aroma Oil Massage</a> and a<br />
Personal Energy Assessment</strong></p>
<p>All together 2 hours of relaxation and balance, valued at $125!</p>
<p>The lucky winner is announced <a href="http://nuadthai.com.au/free-foot-massage-give-away/" target="_blank">here.</a></p>
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		<title>TG recommends: 21Day Weight Loss &#8211; Cyndi O&#8217;Meara</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2010 23:54:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Petra Creutziger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you ever went on a diet, you know how boring they become after a while. What if someone told you that is actually much healthier to eat butter or drink coffee than using light/lite, sugar reduced or low fat products? Have I got your attention? Than you will like what Cyndi O&#8217;Meara has to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://edge.affiliateshop.com/public/AIDLink?AID=104938&amp;BID=13278" target="_blank"><img src="http://changinghabits.com.au/images/affiliate%20banners/21day-banner-200x200.jpg" border="0" alt="Changing Habits 21 Day Healthy Weightloss experience" /></a></p>
<p>If you ever went on a diet, you know how boring they become after a while. What if someone told you that is actually much healthier to eat butter or drink coffee than using light/lite, sugar reduced or low fat products?</p>
<p>Have I got your attention?</p>
<p>Than you will like what Cyndi O&#8217;Meara has to say. She is one of only a few nutritionists who dare say the truth that the big cereal or soft drink companies don&#8217;t want you to hear.</p>
<p>Join in  a healthy lifestyle that does not require you to abandon and resign, but encourages you to eat food you enjoy and enjoy the food you eat.</p>
<p><a href="http://edge.affiliateshop.com/public/AIDLink?AID=104938&amp;BID=13299" target="_blank">Changing Habits 21 Day Weight Loss &amp; Healthy Eating E-Book </a></p>
<p>will open your eyes to the truth that you were longing to and that you have every right to hear.</p>
<p>Learn more here:</p>
<p><a href="http://edge.affiliateshop.com/public/AIDLink?AID=104938&amp;BID=13280" target="_blank"><img class=" fdmmawzaktpacfxitszu" src="http://changinghabits.com.au/images/affiliate%20banners/21day-banner-468x60.jpg" border="0" alt="Changing Habits Changing Lives books, audio and reports" /></a></p>
<h2>You might also be interested in Cyndi&#8217;s other Changing Habits books:</h2>
<p>This new 2007 updated edition of <a href="http://edge.affiliateshop.com/public/AIDLink?AID=104938&amp;BID=13300" target="_blank">Changing Habits Changing Lives</a> is an  education about food and it shows you step by step habit by habit how to  break out of the bad habits of dieting and start eating and living a  healthy, productive and happy life.</p>
<p><a href="http://edge.affiliateshop.com/public/AIDLink?AID=104938&amp;BID=13279" target="_blank"><img src="http://changinghabits.com.au/images/affiliate%20banners/bundle-banner-200x200.jpg" border="0" alt="Changing Habits Changing Lives books, audio and reports" /></a></p>
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